Life is a bowl of cherries- as long as you know where to put the pits
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I know it is summer when I walk into the grocery store and the first thing I see are the cherries.
I absolutely love them.
They also brighten any table setting or spread that you are preparing for your guests.
Cherries also make your charcuterie boards more interesting.
Don’t avoid serving this beautiful fruit because they have pits.
Keep reading to learn about the etiquette of serving and eating cherries.
Etiquette of Serving Cherries to Your Guests
When serving cherries to your guests, it is important to provide a convenient and discreet way for them to dispose of the pits.
Where to Put the Cherry Pits
Small Bowl or Plate: Place a small bowl or plate beside the serving dish of the cherries. This will be a designated place for guests to discard their cherry pits. Make sure it’s clearly visible and easily accessible (see photo).
Side Plate: If you’re serving cherries as part of a larger spread/meal, each guest can use their own side or dinner plate to collect the pits.
Remember to communicate the designated pit disposal method to your guests to ensure everyone is aware of how to handle the pits.
Eating Cherries
To eat a cherry, place the cherry (not the stem) into your mouth.
Eat around the pit.
Once finished, discreetly place the pit into your hand and place into the bowl or vessel provided by your host. If you are served cherries as part of a seated meal (dinner table), place the pit on your plate.
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Today we are sharing our FAQ’s about etiquette certification. You can become certified to teach manners to children as well as a certification in business etiquette.
A: Etiquette certification is an organized process of acquiring knowledge and skills related to social skills and manners. It involves completing a training program or course that covers various aspects of etiquette, such as dining etiquette, first impressions, communication skills, and cultural awareness.
Q: Why should I consider getting etiquette certification?
Q: What are the benefits of becoming etiquette certified?
A: Some benefits of obtaining etiquette certification include:
An enhanced professional image – becoming certified can help you project a professional, polished and organized image. This is important when you are presenting as well as with your online presence.
Being certified by a reputable company can certainly increase your level of confidence.
When you are certified by Manners To Go, this will open doors to new opportunities and career advancement, as it demonstrates your commitment to professionalism and excellence.
Q: How can I become etiquette certified?
A: To become certified by Manners To Go, you need to contact us. You may set a time for a consult to learn more or you can start the process by clicking here.
Q: How long does it take to complete an etiquette certification program?
Q: Are there any prerequisites for etiquette certification?
A: Passion and desire is an important first step. Having a genuine interest in social graces, communication, and cultural understanding is beneficial.
Q: What can I do with an etiquette certification?
A: Once you become certified, you can teach manners and social skills. You will be able to organize classes in your community as well as nationally if you choose.
Many of our licensees teach in public, private and charter schools, after school programs, school assemblies, churches, Girl and Boy Scout troops, country clubs, birthday parties, summer camps, private instructions, etc.
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I believe becoming a charming woman is a possibility for absolutely everyone.
Here is the key- you must want to become charming.
Yes, for some it is innate. For others, they must set the intention to become charming.
First let’s define what charming is:
A Google search defines charming as:
polite, friendly, and likable
Being charming is a combination of many traits and behaviors. When you use these behaviors in a genuine way, you become more likeable, polite and engaging.
Of course, it goes without saying, you must practice good social skills. Using good manners and your etiquette skills are paramount to being a charming woman. These skills up-level your confidence. Use them to your advantage.
Here are Actions and Steps You Can Take to Be Charming:
1: First, get in touch with your “why”: Why do you want to be charming? Do you want more friends? Are you interested in expanding your network and growing your business? Maybe, you want to feel better about yourself. All of these are very good reasons.
2: Become Confident: Being confident is key. Believe in yourself, embrace your uniqueness, and carry yourself with self-assurance. This will make you more attractive and appealing to others. When you are running errands, notice others. What do you find appealing about them? Is it their body language? The way they are dressed? Did they make eye contact with you and smile? What do you find attractive and appealing about others. This will give you clues as to what is important to you.
3: Check in With Your Attitude: Is your attitude a positive one? If not, change it. This is a very important step to becoming a charming woman. No one wants to be around a downer. You will only attract others that have a bad attitude. Charming and complaining do not go together. The same goes for gossiping. Do not gossip. People lose trust in you. Complaining, gossiping and looking for the negative in others results in a bad attitude.
4: Body Language: This is perhaps one of the most important steps and actions you can take. Notice how you walk into a room. Your shoulders need to be back and down, chin lifted, pull up our of your waist and walk in as if you know exactly where you are going. Smile. People notice. Your energy is contagious. Others will want to speak and get to know you.
5: You Become More Interesting When You Are Interested in Others: That’s right. Be observant. Ask questions. Show that you are interested. The prize does not necessarily go to the one who talks the most. Actually, it is the opposite. Ask others about their vacations, what they like to do for fun, etc.
6: Empathy and Kindness: Show genuine concern and empathy for others. Be a good listener, offer support, and be kind in your interactions. Small acts of kindness can leave a lasting impression and make people feel comfortable around you.
7: Dress Appropriately and Show Your Style: Dress up and dress for the occasion. If you are going to a networking event, show your style. Wear a bright color. Dress the part of being a charming woman. We communicate with others through our dress. We tell people how we want to be treated by the clothes we wear.
8: Become Curious: Expand yourself. Read more. Watch documentaries. Listen to podcasts that interests you. You become more interesting when you have “special interests”. Are you a cook? Do you enjoy music? Are you a voracious reader? Share your passion with others (while respecting they may not share your passions).
9: Up-level Your Emotional Intelligence and Self-Awareness; Emotional intelligence is a silent skill and it is your ability to read the room.
A Charming Woman
Remember, charm comes from within. You must embody it. Practice, and I promise life will become more interesting, passionate and fun.
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If you become an etiquette coach, you’ll enjoy a challenging and rewarding career. You’ll get to be creative and work in your passion every single day!
Curious? If running your own business and making a lasting impact on children appeals to you, read on.
Here are the biggest benefits of becoming an etiquette coach!
What Is An Etiquette Coach?
In a second, we’ll dive into specific reasons you should consider becoming an etiquette coach. But first, let’s cover the basics of what an etiquette coach actually does!
To start, throw out the Hollywood image of an etiquette coach teaching ladies to balance books on their heads.
There is so much more to the world of etiquette coaching than teaching people which fork to use. While that’s certainly part of it, manners aren’t the only thing you’ll cover in your sessions!
An etiquette coach is responsible for teaching children and teenagers how to better navigate the world around them. Under your tutelage, children learn how to form lasting relationships, and how to be upstanding members of society.
It doesn’t stop there, though.
You’ll teach children to communicate their needs and respond gracefully to others. That means you’re preparing them to be successful in both their private and professional lives.
Being an etiquette coach is rewarding work that will challenge and fulfill you every day.
Being an etiquette coach comes with so many benefits!
It would be impossible to list them all here, so I’ve narrowed it down to the three best reasons to look into a career as an etiquette coach.
You Get To Work For Yourself
Being an etiquette coach isn’t just about teaching people manners. It’s also about becoming an entrepreneur who experiences all of the benefits of working for yourself.
Becoming an entrepreneur can be one of the most fulfilling aspects of this job. It’s certainly been valuable for me!
Life as an entrepreneur has its challenges, but it’s also amazing—and changes you for the better.
You get to earn your own money doing something that you’re proud of. More importantly, you’ll spend every day working towards what YOU truly want.
As an entrepreneur, you have complete control over your business. This is so unlike a corporate job, where you’re beholden to someone else’s goals.
You get to build your own business, making every decision along the way. You’re the one who decides everything, from how you present yourself to the colors featured on your website!
It’s all you.
Building your own business as an etiquette coach gives you the freedom to shine, connect, and educate!
You’ll Experience Flexibility and Unique Opportunities
As an etiquette coach and entrepreneur, your daily life becomes rich with opportunities. You’ll be able to diversify your experience, broaden your horizons, and even literally travel the world.
When you’re building your own business as an etiquette coach, you are the boss! You create your own schedule. You decide when your working hours are and when you can devote time to your friends and family.
When you are working, you’ll never be bored.
There’s always a project to create or skills to teach. As you’re growing your business, you will find so many things to learn it will keep you on your toes. There are so many relevant skills you can spend your time mastering.
This is especially true when you own a business teaching manners to children. You’ll constantly learn and need to keep up with what’s new, relevant, and exciting. As society changes, you’ll need to pivot in your business, too.
Don’t worry—this keeps your life exciting! You have so much freedom to be creative in your work and bring the world of etiquette to life for your students.
Another benefit of this career path is that you aren’t tied to a single location. This is a job you can do from anywhere in the world! You have the flexibility to work on the seaside in Thailand or from a resort in Switzerland.
You’ll Support Children and Families & Directly Impact Their Lives
Etiquette coaches directly interact with their clients and impact their lives. At Manners to Go, we believe every child deserves to learn manners.
Honestly, there’s nothing quite like seeing a child light up when they fully grasp a manners principle!
Children have been spending so much time interacting with the world through their screens. Etiquette coaches are needed now more than ever to help children understand how to make real human connections. Children need to learn how to build relationships and friendships offline.
And there is nothing like seeing children learn. You will regularly interact with kids whose lives you are changing. Seeing a child light up when he learns to make eye contact, make an introduction, or set the table is heartwarming. Truly, this is the best part of being an etiquette coach and teaching manners!
As an etiquette coach, you have a unique opportunity to give back to society and to your community. You’ll be able to make a direct impact while doing something that lights YOU up!
As an etiquette coach, every day brings me a new challenge to overcome and a new way to explore my creative side.
I have the freedom and flexibility to work when and where I want, making a real difference in people’s lives.
Do you want to work for yourself and leave a lasting impact on the people around you? Then a career as an etiquette coach just might be perfect for you!
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The author, Susan Gravely lives close by and I was able to attend an event where she spoke of her childhood, how she got her to start as an entrepreneur and the favorite recipes she included in the book.
I made the Hot Milk Chocolate cake for Easter (page. It quickly has become my all-time favorite yellow cake recipe. If you need a tried and true recipe for cupcakes then this will become your go-to.
I love shoes… sandals, wedges, high heels, and boots and when I will be doing a lot of walking my go-to is a pair of sneakers. This pair has a platform and gives me a bit of lift. It also has an elevated look to it -rather than a pair of athletic sneakers.
I wear mine with jeans and long skirts. People stop me on the street to ask about the brand.
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
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My Favorite Tea Blend and What I Add That Might Surprise You
Most likely we have a love of tea in common. To me, a cup of tea makes everything more special – whether sitting at my desk working or out with friends.
It is not a secret that I love Mariage Frères tea. I first discovered the tea at a friend’s house many years ago. Since then, I have purchased it multiple times and visited their flagship store in Paris (also many times).
The BOLÉRO blend is my absolute favorite blend. It is a black tea with a fruity blend. I like both the loose tea as well as the sachets.
I love it with toast in the morning and in the afternoons with chocolate.
The tea blend was such a big hit that both of my guests ordered it immediately and posted about it on Instagram!
Here is What I Put in Tea That May Surprise You
This might surprise you. I like to add good-quality maple syrup to my cup of tea. And here is why- it adds such a rich flavor and I do not get a sugar rush or high from it.
I like the Bolero blend with or without milk
About Mariage Frères Tea
Mariage Frères is a tea company that was founded in 1854 by two brothers. The literal translation is “the Mariage brothers”. They are credited with being the first to create unique French blends which are inspired by French cuisine and wines.
You can find it online as well as at Bergdorf’s in New York.
What is your favorite tea? And I would love to see photos of you having tea. Tag us on Instagram or send them to us via email at info@mannerstogo.com.
Enjoy and as always, we look forward to hearing from you.
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Lisa Richey provides etiquette programs to businesses, schools, and individuals.
