As an etiquette expert (or an aspiring one), there are many business lessons we can learn from Audrey Hepburn’s life.
Since you are apart of our community, I bet you are a fan of Audrey Hepburn.
Those of us that are interested in etiquette most likely adore her. Audrey’s sense of style and beauty is alluring and so fascinating.
I was glued to this movie about her life. Warning- this documentary isn’t all about glamour, Hollywood and style.
This documentary about Audrey’s life gets real about her personal life. She was ten-years-old when the war broke out. She moved to different countries and her father left Audrey when she was six-years-old. This was devastating to her because she adored him.
After many obstacles in her life, Aubrey still triumphed and had loving relationships with her two children.
Here Are 3 Lessons and Traits We Can Learn from Audrey Hepburn
After watching this documentary, there were three character traits that really stood out to me. I think we can all look to Audrey when we are thinking about our own professional development goals.
Revolutionary: According to the dictionary, “revolutionary” means, causing complete and dramatic change.
Audrey had a real love for ballet and wanted to become a ballerina. She realized this was not going to happen for her. She did a pivot because one day she had the chance to become an actress. She made a comment that she had enough skills and “they”, meaning producers and directors, had “enough to work with”.
Vulnerabilities: Audrey had a very tough childhood. As I mentioned above, she was ten when the war broke out. Her father left when she was six. She was married and divorced twice. Her second marriage to an Italian physician was especially challenging.
She was resilient. She found happenings and love with Robert Wolders who was her constant companion until her death in 1993.
I loved seeing her son, Sean Hepburn Ferrer, talk about his mother.
Transformational: We can all learn from Audrey as she was driven and seized the moment even though certain things-like becoming a ballerina, did not work out for her.
Can you imagine if she did not go down the path of becoming an actress? She tried. Audrey succeeded.
The documentary is narrated in certain parts by her granddaughter, Emma Ferrer.
You can find, Audrey, The Documentary on Amazon Prime.
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PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Oh, the pleasures of afternoon tea. Can you relate?
I bet if you are interested in etiquette certification, then you understand the benefits and pleasures of afternoon tea.
If you listed out your top 5 favorite ways to relax and enjoy life, would afternoon tea be on your list?
If not, what in the world! You need to add this to your list.
Trust me.
So much can be learned and created over afternoon tea.
I can remember my first “real” adult tea. I was invited by a girlfriend to have tea at The Ritz Carlton in Atlanta. The tea was life changing! Truly. Afternoon tea has been a ritual of mine ever since that day when I was a young lady in my twenties…newly married and starting my career.
I can remember the music, the setting and my very first scone. I grew up in the south and tea was served over ice and very sweet and served during most every meal. It was the gold standard.
And sitting down at The Ritz with all the beautiful things…tea pots, white glove service and the prettiest petit fours – life changed.
Can you remember certain moments like this in your life? If so, do share. Send an email to me and let me know. I am all ears!
Here is How You Can Incorporate Afternoon Tea into Your Daily Life
Relax and Enjoy a Cup: You don’t need your task list or an excuse to have a cup of tea. Take a quiet moment for yourself and be with your thoughts. Simple sit and enjoy. Use your favorite cup or mug. I like to use a a teacup to make it a bit more special during this dedicated time. And yes, I switch out my favorite tea cups depending on my mood.
Favorite Indulgence: Now is the time to enjoy that special chocolate you have been thinking about. Like wine, you can pair tea with many of your favorite treats. And adding chocolate to this special time is one of my absolute favorite ways to have a cup of tea.
Creativity: Make a pot of tea, take out your favorite teacup and sit with your notepad and let your imagination go down many different paths. There is something about a cup of tea that sparks many ideas. If you have a project….work related or any other type of endeavor- brain storm with a cup of tea. If you are thinking about becoming certified to teach etiquette, now is the time to get your creative juices flowing.
Journal: Journaling is a meaningful way to spend your time. Whether it is a gratitude list or anything else that is on your mind-get your thoughts in paper. Of course, with a cup of tea.
Etiquette Certification and Pleasures of Tea
When you become certified to teach etiquette to children, teaching charm school and afternoon tea becomes a popular request from parents and other organization like Girl Scout Troops and Jack and Jill Clubs of America.
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Dr. Borba, “We Need to Teach Children How to be Human”
You may have seen Michele Borba, ED.D. on the Today Show giving parenting advice. As an etiquette expert, you will want to add this book to your reading list.
I was lucky enough to see her speak at a school in Philadelphia. You can tell she is the EXPERT and one of the most passionate advocates for children and teens.
If you have not seen her, spend some time on You Tube to see and witness what I mean.
If You Are Currently Teaching Manners to Children or Waiting in the Wings, You Will Want to Add This Book to Your Reading List.
Thrivers: The Surprising Reason Why Some Kids Struggle and Other Shine
Dr. Borba says Thrivers are made not born.
Even before the pandemic, children were stressed, lonely and overwhelmed. According to Dr. Borba, we have focused so much on testing and being competitive, we have lost touch and not taught children how to be human.
When I read this….it caused a moment of pause. It is a profound statement and one I believe to be true.
Here is the good news. Character strengths can and must be taught to children. Character strengths are as important as academic success.
Dr. Borba Lists Character Strengths As:
Self-Confidence
Empathy
Self-Control
Integrity
Curiosity
Perservance
Optimism
The book is filled with proven strategies you can easily teach children from preschool through high school.
I like how Dr. Borba gives us ideas on how to weave these skills into our everyday lives. We don’t always need worksheets or lectures.
By reading this book, we learn how to find meaningful ways to nurture the seven character strengths by modeling, discussing and pointing them out.
I do hope you add this book to your “etiquette” library.
As always, thanks for reading and being a part of the manners movement.
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
How to Establish Yourself as an Etiquette Coach When First Starting Your Business?
Etiquette Coaches Communicate with Their New Audience:
Start with social media. This is absolutely free! You can start a Facebook page and post your thoughts and observations. As you read articles that are relevant, comment and post them on your social media platforms.
This is a lifestyle business. As you are out with your children or grandchildren, post about your adventures out in your everyday life.
Etiquette CoachesOffer to Write Articles for Media Resources
You are an expert that can provide valuable information for teachers, parents and leaders in your community. Look for ways to help by contributing articles to local parenting magazines, online news, and printed media. Pitch your story to local news stations.
As an Etiquette Coach, What Do You Have in Common with Your Audience
You know parents are so happy and interested in having their children grow up kind, smart, happy and well-adjusted adults. Educators are happy to have you share not only your passion but your knowledge within their schools virtually and in-person.
Think about what you have in common with your audience when writing the about page/bio on your website. Communicate your commonalities when you are introducing yourself to others. This takes practice and intention. Write down your thoughts and ideas.
Etiquette Coaches Draw from their Previous Experiences
All of our current licensees have varied backgrounds. We have teachers, engineers, grandmothers, mothers, human resource managers and event planners. You have transferable skills that make a difference. Trust me, the world needs what you have to offer.
Etiquette Coaches Show Authority by Recognizing Their Value
I tell my licensees not to give away their expertise for free. However, there are times when starting your business, where offering a class pro-bono is at times a good idea. It gives you experience and at the same time helps an organization or a non-profit.
Shift Your Mindset
You are the expert. Think of yourself as one. This tips is absolutely the most important one on this list. You must feel like an authority on etiquette issues from the inside.
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Lisa Richey provides etiquette programs to businesses, schools, and individuals.
