As etiquette experts (and those that are aspiring to become one), we are here to show what is possible and to be examples of how we can be ladies in everyday life.
I certainly do not think we should teach that etiquette is about “rules”. Instead, etiquette and social skills are guidelines more for self-interest – in terms of how we think of ourselves from within and how we can make others feel important and comfortable in life..
These guidelines can help you navigate social situations with grace and confidence.
10 Etiquette Tips Every Lady Should Know (especially etiquette experts)
Politeness and Respect: Show kindness, consideration, and respect towards others in your interactions, regardless of their background or status.
Good Communication: Practice clear and effective communication, including active listening and thoughtful responses. Avoid interrupting others and speak in a calm and respectful tone.
Personal Hygiene: Maintain good personal hygiene and dressing appropriately for the occasion.
Table Manners: Familiarize yourself with basic table manners, such as using utensils properly, chewing with your mouth closed, and not talking with food in your mouth. Additionally, be mindful of your dining etiquette, including waiting for everyone to be served before eating and using polite phrases like “please” and “thank you.”
Punctuality: Be punctual for appointments, meetings, and social gatherings. Arriving on time shows respect for other people’s time and demonstrates reliability.
Graciousness: Cultivate an attitude of graciousness and generosity in your interactions. Offer compliments sincerely, express gratitude frequently, and be willing to lend a helping hand when needed.
Respect for Privacy: Respect other people’s privacy and personal space. Avoid prying into others’ personal affairs or sharing sensitive information without their consent.
Thank You Notes: When someone extends a kindness or generosity towards you, such as giving a gift or hosting an event in your honor, express your gratitude by sending a handwritten thank-you note.
Confidence and Poise: Project confidence and poise in your demeanor and body language. Stand tall, make eye contact, and speak with clarity and conviction.
Adaptability and Flexibility: Be adaptable and flexible in various social situations. Demonstrate the ability to navigate different environments with ease and grace, adjusting your behavior accordingly.
Remember, etiquette is not about adhering to rigid rules but rather about showing consideration, respect, and thoughtfulness towards others in your interactions.
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
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What is included in the curriculum? All grade levels? A few? Only one? Are the lesson plans easy to use?
What does the curriculum look like? Is it child-friendly? Is the branding cohesive? Is it robust? Do you have enough lesson plans to teach at least three months of classes? Does it have role-playing activities?
Aspiring to Become an Etiquette Expert
Q.Does the company’s branding and mission align with who I am?
A.Basically, is the curriculum and company who is certifying you a company that you can be proud to associate with – do they align with who you are as a business owner and as a person?
Q. Do I also get trained in how to start and market my new etiquette business?
A. This is a one area you do not want to overlook. Starting a business takes grace, grit and gumption.
Will you receive this type of training along with the curriculum you will be purchasing? Are templates of proposals included (tip: this IS included in the Manners To Go certification). How about contract templates, photo and video release forms? How to teach using the new materials you purchased? How to contact new leads? How to go out and get new business?
Whew! We know, it is a lot to take in and to do.
We encourage you to do your research. Know what you are purchasing.
Over the years, we have received so many calls expressing disappointment with other etiquette companies NOT delivering an exceptional experience.
Becoming a certified children’s etiquette expert involves gaining knowledge and skills to effectively teach young individuals about proper behavior and manners.
In addition to these questions, certification programs may also cover topics such as effective communication with children, managing challenging behavior, and staying current with contemporary issues that impact children’s social skills.
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
“The most powerful woman in the room is you” is a statement of empowerment and self-confidence, encouraging women to recognize their own strength, value, and potential in any given situation.
As an aspiring etiquette expert, this can be a statement that motives and inspires you everyday. This can serve as a reminder of who you are becoming as you start the journey of being an entrepreneur.
It’s a reminder that each individual possesses unique strengths and capabilities, and that they should embrace their power rather than underestimate themselves.
This phrase often serves as motivation for women to assert themselves, speak up, and take on leadership roles, acknowledging their ability to make a significant impact in any setting.
Book for Etiquette Experts: The Most Powerful Woman in the Room Is You
Lydia Fenet’s book “The Most Powerful Woman in the Room Is You” is an empowering and inspiring guide for women seeking to maximize their potential, assert their presence, and achieve success in various aspects of their lives. Drawing from her own experiences as a seasoned auctioneer and fundraiser, Fenet delivers a comprehensive guide to what it feels like to be a confident woman on a mission to succeed. She gives practical advice, insightful anecdotes, and actionable strategies.
One of the book’s strengths lies in its emphasis on self-belief. Fenet encourages readers to recognize their value and to embrace their unique qualities. Through personal stories, she demonstrates how cultivating confidence can lead to greater opportunities and accomplishments.
Additionally, the book addresses the significance of cultivating a supportive network and fostering meaningful relationships. Fenet emphasizes the value of mentorship, collaboration, and community in propelling women forward and overcoming obstacles.
Overall, “The Most Powerful Woman in the Room Is You” I liked this book and highly recommend reading it.
Fenet’s engaging writing style, combined with her wealth of experience and wisdom, makes this book a must-read for anyone seeking inspiration and practical advice on how to thrive in today’s world.
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Teaching children the gap and gain mindset as an etiquette expert involves helping them develop a positive and resilient attitude towards challenges, setbacks, and learning experiences.
The gap and gain mindset is about focusing on progress and growth rather than fixating on perceived failures or shortcomings.
This has been one of my favorite books so far this year. It packs a powerful punch for adults and there are so many valuable lessons for children. It is never too early to start guiding a child’s mindset.
Remember, Instilling the Gap and Gain Mindset is an Ongoing Process
Consistency, positive reinforcement, and creating a supportive environment are key factors in helping children develop a resilient and growth-oriented mindset.
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
I must admit, I am enamored and admire the French. They have a level of confidence I find intriguing.
If you take it a step further, this level of confidence includes their knowledge and appreciation of using good manners and etiquette.
It’s a common stereotype that French women are known for their elegance as well.
I think people watching in France is always a good idea and we have so much to learn from them.
The French Use Good Manners
French culture places a significant emphasis on politeness, social etiquette, and a certain level of formality.
This emphasis on good manners is often ingrained in individuals from a young age, and it extends to various aspects of life, including social interactions, dining etiquette, and even personal presentation.
French Women Are Refined
French women are often associated with a sense of refinement and grace in their behavior.
This can be observed in the way they greet others, engage in conversations, and carry themselves in public.
As an etiquette expert, we can look to French women for many things – their style and the importance they place on deportment. This seems to come naturally for them. It is apart of their daily life. They have a certain je ne said quoi.
French Dining Etiquette
Additionally, French dining etiquette is well-known for its attention to detail.
French women, like their male counterparts, are often familiar with proper table manners, including the use of utensils, the pace of eating, and the appreciation of good food and wine.
It’s important to note that while there may be cultural stereotypes, individuals vary greatly, and not everyone adheres to these generalizations.
While there may be cultural expectations regarding manners in France, it’s essential to approach such generalizations with an open mind and recognize the diversity within any cultural group.
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Quiet luxury – timeless, investment pieces, quality over quantity – this sums it up for me when I think of quiet luxury.
How to Define Quiet Luxury
Defining The Etiquette of Quiet Luxury
“Quiet luxury” is a concept in the realm of fashion and lifestyle that emphasizes subtle, understated, and often discreet forms of luxury. Quiet luxury focuses on quality, craftsmanship, and a more nuanced aesthetic.
When I buy something, especially clothing, and it is a quiet luxury item, it becomes an intentional purchase. This purchase is not a quick or impulse buy.
Quiet luxury has been around and a focus for the past few years.
Think of a beautiful cashmere sweater, a pair of loafers, a gorgeous pair of wool trousers, or a timeless watch.
These are items you will have a select out of your closet for years to come.
I am a big believer in quality over quantity. Less is more. We have all heard of this popular saying. And when I think about quiet luxury this comes to mind an a guideline when making purchases.
This concept has gained traction as consumer preferences shift towards experiences, authenticity, and timeless style.
Key Characteristics of Quiet Luxury Include:
Understated Elegance: Quiet luxury often embraces simplicity and elegance without relying on ostentatious displays or flashy logos. The focus is on the inherent beauty of well-designed and well-made products.
Timeless Design: Products associated with quiet luxury tend to have timeless designs that withstand trends. This contributes to a longer lifespan for items, both in terms of style and durability.
Attention to Detail: Craftsmanship and attention to detail are paramount in quiet luxury. The quality of materials and the meticulous execution of design contribute to the overall sense of luxury.
Limited Branding: Unlike some luxury brands that prominently feature logos, quiet luxury often opts for more subtle branding. The emphasis is on the product itself rather than the brand name.
Exclusive Experiences: Beyond physical products, quiet luxury can extend to exclusive and personalized experiences. This could include private consultations, limited edition releases, or bespoke services. When you are an etiquette expert, clients will call you for private manners instructions and trainings -for both children and adults.
Sustainability: Many consumers seeking quiet luxury are increasingly concerned about sustainability. Products may be crafted from eco-friendly materials, and brands may prioritize ethical and environmentally responsible practices.
Quiet luxury can manifest in various industries, including fashion, accessories, home goods, and travel experiences.
The concept caters to individuals who appreciate the beautiful things but prefer a more understated and refined approach to expressing their tastes and values. This easily aligns for us in the world of etiquette.
Here is a FREE Guide to Help YOU Start a Business Teaching Manners to Children
If you are looking to start immediately and save money on travel and time, then this is your best option.You choose the dates of our trainings. Most choose to have their sessions once a week, others twice. This is a “live” and private training. It is NOTself-guided.
PRIVATE Training. That’s right, we meet in person, the two of us and our focus is completely on your business. Click the image above or follow the button below to learn more and to see a list of cities available for your training.
Lisa Richey provides etiquette programs to businesses, schools, and individuals.
